If you matured in the Philippines, chances are you matured with your grandmother or aunties (locally called as Titas) telling you that your skirt is too short, your reds are too red, your blouse is too transparent, or you went house far too late (or early considering that you did be available in at 2AM). There would also be times that they have called you out for chuckling too loud or have asked you “Who was that person on that picture in Facebook? Why was his arm around you? Is he your boyfriend? Malagkit ang tingin niya sayo (He looks at you in a different way).” or something to that extent. Just recently, I did something any good Dalagang Pinay babes would never do (perhaps considering that the Dalaga had no iPhone prior to): I downloaded Tinder and swiped best a number of times. To my surprise, I got lots of swipe rights back and my phone pinged practically 7 times a day telling me that I have a brand-new message from some complete stranger that swiped right on me. However, this Pinay babe did not stop at merely chatting them. I went out with one of them. Envision the variety of slippers that might be flying round the Dalaga’s house need to the household understand Butuan Pinay Babes about this. I informed a buddy of mine that I went on a Tinder date in Canada. She was informing me to delete the app and as any great friend, alerted me about the perils of Tinder that I already understood about. Even more interestingly, she mentioned that she never thought that I would download Tinder and let alone go on a Tinder date. “Due To The Fact That Dalagang Pilipina,” she replies. She was right, the Dalaga would never ever do this. She will rest on their ancestral home’s terrace and await for Pedro/Juan/Pepito/ whoever to serenade her. Poor Pedro/Pepito/Juan will need to travel through an audition just to be able to draw out our Dalagang Pinay babes, believe something like American Idol, The Voice, Britain’s Got Skill and so on. Judges will be grandmother, auntie, auntie’s partner, Dalagang Pilipina’s bro & & moms and dads, grandma’s buddy, and often their next-door neighbor. That is the woman our grandparents, parents, aunties, uncles, neighbors expect us to be.
Anything that does not suit that cookie-cutter mold, may it be less or more, was something … Why? Due to the fact that it was something various. If it was something good or bad was a various story. The Dalagang Pinay Babes is a concept. She does not go on Tinder dates. For the longest time, teenage Pinay babes (in the Philippines) were expected to fit into this description or at the extremely least, be demure, composed, lady-like, etc. Exist Pinay women Filipino babes who are still like this? Yes. Exist Filipinas who go on Tinder dates? Juan-or-Pedro/damsel-in-distress and I do not believe there’s anything wrong with that.
It does not necessarily mean that we are looking for a relationship or want somebody to sleep with. Though often, and I won’t lie, it does. I guess I am simply no Dalagang Pinay babes anymore. And I don’t think all Pinay babes are any longer. Is that a bad thing? I don’t believe so. It just indicates we know what we desire and we go for it. I wish to rethink the statement I have actually pointed out earlier, that the Dalagang Pinay babes would never do somethingsuch as set up Tinder on her phone. The Dalagang Butuan Pinay Babes babes would download it, swipe a couple of times, message him some risky notes and she would not get captured.
Recently, I did something any good Dalagang Pinay babes would never ever do (maybe considering that the Dalaga had no iPhone before): I downloaded Tinder and swiped ideal a number of times. I told a good friend of mine that I went on a Tinder date in Canada. Even more remarkably, she mentioned that she never ever thought that I would download Tinder and let alone go on a Tinder date. Are there Filipinas who go on Tinder dates? I would like to reassess the statement I have actually mentioned previously, that the Dalagang Pinay babes would never do somethingsuch as install Tinder on her phone.
